6 Things White People Say That Highlight Their Privilege
The feminist scholar and anti-racism educator Peggy McIntosh described the white privilege as an "invisible weightless backpack with special provisions, cards, passports, code books, visas, clothing, tools and blank checks".
In other words, white people usually move through life without being aware of all the leads, resources, and access to the color of their skin. They only recognize these undeserved benefits when they are pointed out - and even then, some whites will try to deny the existence of their privilege.
It should be noted that just recognizing your white privilege is not enough - but it is a small and necessary step to take action and use that privilege to break down the systems that the black community and other colored people have in it Suppress country.
We have spoken to educators, activists, therapists and professors about the things that whites often say and that highlight their privilege without realizing it.
1. "It is not my job to fix racism because I am not racist."
What you are essentially saying is that you do not have to be involved in the fight against it because systemic racism does not personally harm you - a privileged position in which you must be. White people have to step on the plate, act as allies and use their privilege forever.
"It takes the actions of every individual to create racist behavior and be part of the solution," Michelle Saahene, co-founder of From Privilege to Progress, told HuffPost. "It is a privilege to only be able to speak about races and never experience them." It is a privilege not to speak about it or to acknowledge it. "
This statement also ignores the fact that racism is largely a structural problem, not just an individual one.
"People with color also want to live in a world where their skin color doesn't affect the way they are treated and simply never talk about race," added Saahene. "But systemic racism is real, people with color need to talk about race to navigate a system that was never meant for their freedom - and that continues with the support of white silence."
2. "I don't see any color."
This statement is intended to show that you have no prejudices. But as the psychologist Erlanger Turner put it: "We all see racial differences if we are not visually impaired." Refusing to recognize a person's skin color is also refusing to recognize the struggles and discrimination that they have faced due to their race.
"For most whites, they have the privilege of receiving many benefits in society based on the" white "that does not receive the colored," said Turner, assistant professor of psychology at Pepperdine University, who mentions racial and mental health ethnic groups examined communities. "Think, for example, of the recent protests [in Michigan] when white men went to a government building with guns and were not harmed. Nevertheless, blacks participate in peaceful protests and the police shoot them with rubber bullets. It's a white privilege . "
3. "You don't have to worry about the police if you don't do anything illegal."
The way white people perceive and interact with law enforcement agencies is very different from the way black and Latin American people do it. Black people were killed by the police in everyday activities: Botham Jean ate ice cream in his living room, Breonna Taylor slept in her bed, and Atatiana Jefferson played video games with her nephew, to name a few. There is also a story of the police disproportionately stopping by, arresting and arresting black people for minor violations or for no apparent reason. And like George Floyd - the Minneapolis man who was killed in police custody after allegedly buying fake $ 20 cigarettes - minor incidents can escalate to deadly violence.
"White people often claim that black people shouldn't worry if they, black people, don't do anything illegal," said anti-racism educator Myisha T. Hill, author of Check Your Privilege: Live Into the job. " "This is because white people have an innate sense of security because of the police policies that racially profile and target black people, which in many cases leads to excessive or even fatal violence. This is a prime example of white privileges."
4. "I don't want to post about racism on social media because I'm afraid of the backlash."
If the fear of relatives not following you on Instagram or "all life is important" comments on your Facebook posts prevent you from saying anything. Your priorities are wrong. Refusing to use your voice and platform in this way means "putting your comfort above everything," even "above humanity," said Saahene.
"It is a privilege not to take the risk of estrangement from others," she said. "It is said that the drama or backlash that you do not want to face potential racists is more important than speaking out against the oppression of innocent people."
5. "I don't have a white privilege."
Some whites insist that white privilege does not apply to them because they are not rich or because they have worked hard for what they have or because their life has been a struggle in many ways. They become defensive when they hear the term because they don't really understand it.
White privilege does not mean that all whites lead an enchanted life. "It simply means that the color of your skin is not one of the reasons why you may face personal or professional hurdles," said Abigail Makepeace, a marriage and family therapist who specializes in trauma.
If whites reject the benefits they have received because of their whiteness, it only shows how unsuspecting - and privileged - they really are.
"The mere assumption that someone does not benefit from systemic privileges shows how little they are aware of systemic racism," said Makepeace. "Ignorance about complicity indicates that someone has been protected and protected from the system - a luxury that POC has never had."
6. "I'm not sure when to talk to my kids about racism."
One of the most common concerns Hill hears of white mothers is not knowing when or how to raise racism with their children. The question itself shows that white parents have the opportunity to wait for the "right" time to talk to their children about racial discrimination. Colored parents are often forced to have these conversations with their children at a young age.
“This urge to protect their white children from the realities of racism arises directly from their own white privileges. Black, brown, indigenous, Asian, Pacific Islanders, colored people don't have the luxury of putting on blinders to protect our children from racism, ”said Hill. “Our livelihood depends on us having heartbreaking conversations with our children from an early age about why they have to behave differently from white children and what to do if the police stop us. Because our security is never guaranteed. "
Racial talks must also become the norm in white houses, Saahene said, "to teach anti-racism and raise socially conscious and inclusive children to be part of the solution."
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